Parenting and Child Conduct Counseling

In our previous blog posts, we explored the complexities of Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) and the importance of building a solid parent-child relationship. This installment will delve into effective communication, a Parent Management Training (PMT) cornerstone. To better understand why certain behaviors occur, we'll introduce the ABC model, a helpful tool for analyzing and addressing challenging situations. Before discussing how to give directions your child will follow, I would like to introduce a model to help us understand how and why behavior happens. The model is called the ABC or Antecedent-Behavior-Consequence Model. This construct may be challenging to follow. If you have any questions about the model, ask your therapist or submit the question on the message board.  The ABC Model: Understanding Behavior as a Chain Reaction All behavior, from the most straightforward actions to complex emotional responses, occurs as a reaction to something that happened before it. The

Setting Up a Successful Point Chart/Token System for Your Child: A Comprehensive Guide Positive reinforcement can be a game-changer for parents raising children with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). It's not just about saying "good job" but specific, sincere, and timely recognition of your child's efforts and progress. To make praise truly effective, consider these key elements: 1.      Specificity: Avoid generic praise like "good job." Instead, pinpoint exactly what your child did well. For example, "I love how you shared your toys with your sister without being asked." This shows you noticed their specific action and reinforces that particular behavior. 2.      Sincerity: Your praise should be genuine and heartfelt. Children are adept at sensing insincerity, so deliver your compliments with warmth and enthusiasm. A forced smile or tone won't have the same impact. 3.      Immediacy: Deliver praise immediately after the desired beha

Parenting is a journey filled with ups and downs. Discipline is a vital tool for guiding our children. But what if your child has Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)? Traditional discipline methods might only work part of the time. Instead, we focus on guiding our children, teaching them acceptable behavior with understanding and empathy. Remember, with the right strategies and your unwavering support, you play a vital role in your child's learning and growth. In this post, we'll explore the concept of discipline through the lens of Parent Management Training (PMT). The idea is simple: kindness and understanding are powerful tools, even when addressing challenging behaviors. PMT has high expectations for children but achieves those goals through positive reinforcement and thoughtful discipline, not harsh punishment. Why Traditional Discipline Might Not Work Children with ODD often have trouble managing their emotions and communicating. Punishments can make things worse and rein