Intro: Turning ODD Conflict into Cooperation

By Andy Anderson

 Welcome to a comprehensive guide designed specifically for parents navigating the challenges of Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). 

This resource, created by Andy Anderson of Parenting and Child Conduct Counseling, aims to equip you with valuable insights and practical strategies to foster understanding, cooperation, and a more peaceful home environment. 

Drawing on years of experience, this series covers a range of topics, from understanding ODD and effective treatment options to strengthening your parent-child bond and mastering positive communication techniques. Whether you're currently seeking guidance or building upon your progress, this guide offers support every step of the way.

While this guide offers valuable insights and strategies, it's important to note that it is not a substitute for professional therapeutic guidance. Every child and family situation is unique. A qualified therapist can provide personalized assessment, diagnosis, and treatment plans tailored to your specific needs. 

Table of Contents:

  • Intro: Turning ODD Conflict into Cooperation

  • Part 1: Understanding ODD: A Parent’s Guide

    • Stubbornness vs. ODD: Unraveling the Mystery

    • The Science Behind ODD

    • How Your Family Life Can Affect ODD

  • Part 2: Understanding ODD and Its Treatments

    • Team Effort: The Key to Success

    • Core Treatments:

    • Additional Treatment Options:

    • Choosing the Right Plan for Your Child:

  • Part 3: Rebuilding Your Parent-Child Relationship

    • Nurturing Connection: The Foundation for Overcoming ODD

    • Broken Parent-Child Relationships: The Coercive Cycle

    • The Good News: Breaking the Cycle and Building a Stronger Bond

  • Part 4: The Art of Getting Heard: Giving Directions Your Child with ODD Will Actually Follow

    • The ABC Model: Understanding Behavior as a Chain Reaction

    • Why Clear Communication Matters

    • Problem Behavior/Positive Opposite: A Key PMT Strategy

    • The Importance of Observable Behaviors

    • Crafting Clear Directions: Antecedent

  • Part 5: Building Cooperation Through Positive Reinforcement: A Guide for Parents

    • Setting Up a Successful Point Chart/Token System for Your Child: A Comprehensive Guide

    • Planning the Token or Point System

    • Implementing the System

  • Part 6: Navigating Discipline with a Child Diagnosed with ODD: A Parent's Guide to Positive Parenting

    • Why Traditional Discipline Might Not Work

    • Critical Principles for Effective Discipline:

    • Why Corporal Punishment is Discouraged

    • Alternatives to Corporal Punishment:

  • Part 7: Conquering Routines and Resistant Behaviors: 4 Proven Strategies

    1. Simulations: The Dress Rehearsal for Real-Life Challenges

    2. Jump Starts: Pave the Path to Peaceful Routines

    3. Shaping: The Art of Baby Steps

    4. Chaining: Linking Behaviors for Mastery

  • Part 8: Problem-Solving Skills Training

    • PSST Model

    • Step Memorization

    • PSST Social problems – Home

    • Social Problems: School

    • Social Problems: Neighborhood peers

  • Part 9: Parent-Teen Conflict Resolution: A Problem-Solving Guide for Parents and Teens

    • Step 1: Initiate a Meaningful Conversation

    • Step 2: Define the Problem

    • Step 3: Brainstorm Solutions

    • Step 4: Evaluate Options

    • Step 5: Select and Implement a Solution

    • Step 6: Monitor and Evaluate

  • Part 10: Enhancing Parent-Teen Communication: The Power of Active Listening

    • Parent-Teen Communication: The Art of Listening

    • Active Listening

    • Expressing Your Feelings Honestly

    • Additional Tips for Effective Parent-Teen Communication

    • Practice Exercises for Developing Active Listening Skills

  • Part 11: Rational and Irrational Beliefs

    • Parents' Unreasonable Beliefs

    • Teens' Unreasonable Beliefs

    • Why These Beliefs Matter

    • Developing Rational Beliefs

    • CBT for the Whole Family

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Important Note: The information in this blog series is intended for educational purposes only and should not be used as a substitute for professional advice from a qualified healthcare provider. If you suspect your child may have ODD or any other mental health condition, please consult with a mental health professional for diagnosis and treatment recommendations.

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