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The Detrimental Effects of Spanking on Children

  Spanking, a form of corporal or physical punishment, is a disciplinary measure many parents use that can significantly harm a child's well-being (Hornor et al., 2015). Research has consistently shown that children subjected to corporal punishment, such as spanking, tend to exhibit increased aggression and antisocial behavior, are at a higher risk of mental health problems, and often experience strained parent-child relationships (Chiocca, 2017; Grujicic et al., 2022). These adverse outcomes highlight the importance of adopting alternative disciplinary strategies that foster a child's healthy development. Prevalence of Physical, Corporal, and Spanking 49% of children aged 0-9 were spanked in the past year (Miller-Perrin & Perrin, 2018) 42% of caregivers use physical punishment monthly (Prevent Child Abuse, 2021) Up to 80% of parents have spanked their child at some point (Gershoff et al., 2012). Understanding Corporal Punishment Corporal punishment is using physical for...

Intro: Turning ODD Conflict into Cooperation

  Welcome to a comprehensive guide designed specifically for parents navigating the challenges of Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD).  This resource, created by Andy Anderson of Parenting and Child Conduct Counseling, aims to equip you with valuable insights and practical strategies to foster understanding, cooperation, and a more peaceful home environment.  Drawing on years of experience, this series covers a range of topics, from understanding ODD and effective treatment options to strengthening your parent-child bond and mastering positive communication techniques. Whether you're currently seeking guidance or building upon your progress, this guide offers support every step of the way. While this guide offers valuable insights and strategies, it's important to note that it is not a substitute for professional therapeutic guidance. Every child and family situation is unique. A qualified therapist can provide personalized assessment, diagnosis, and treatment plans tailo...

Part 1: Understanding ODD: A Parent’s Guide

Welcome to a world where children seem to resist everything, and “no” is their favorite word! If you’re constantly locked in arguments or dealing with explosive tantrums that leave you feeling drained and overwhelmed, rest assured, you’re not alone. Many parents, just like you, find these behaviors incredibly challenging. You might be wondering if your child is dealing with something called Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). This blog series provides guidance, support, and a beacon of hope as you navigate these turbulent waters. Stubbornness vs. ODD: Unraveling the Mystery All kids can be stubborn at times. They might resist cleaning their room, refuse to eat their vegetables, or protest bedtime. These are common scenarios that many parents can relate to. But this is usually a passing phase. They might get a little frustrated, but they eventually cooperate. ODD, however, is a different ball game. It’s when a child’s defiance and arguments become a daily struggle for at least six mont...