Part 5: Building Cooperation Through Positive Reinforcement: A Guide for Parents of Children with ODD
Setting Up a Successful Point Chart/Token System for Your Child: A Comprehensive Guide Positive reinforcement can be a game-changer for parents raising children with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). It's not just about saying "good job" but specific, sincere, and timely recognition of your child's efforts and progress. To make praise truly effective, consider these key elements: 1. Specificity: Avoid generic praise like "good job." Instead, pinpoint exactly what your child did well. For example, "I love how you shared your toys with your sister without being asked." This shows you noticed their specific action and reinforces that particular behavior. 2. Sincerity: Your praise should be genuine and heartfelt. Children are adept at sensing insincerity, so deliver your compliments with warmth and enthusiasm. A forced smile or tone won't have the same impact. 3. Immediacy: Deliver praise immediately after the desired beha